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The 13 Best Sex Toys for Couples to Spice up Their Sex Life

When you get that feeling, these toys bring that sexual healing.

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By Sean Tirman and Bobby Box

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Sex toys can be a tricky subject to broach in a relationship. An innocent item intended to add a little excitement to your sex life can spark a partner’s insecurity and a novel’s worth of internal monologues.

A partner may interpret the suggestion as insinuating that they cannot sufficiently please the other, but this is rarely the case. The solution to this misguided notion is a shift in perspective since many sex toys weren’t invented to replace a partner but rather work in tandem to enhance a sexual experience, whether solo or partnered.

Products in the Guide

  • We-Vibe Sync 2

    Best Overall Sex Toy for Couples

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  • Fun Factory Nōs

    Best Couple's Cock Ring

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  • MysteryVibe Crescendo 2

    Best Splurge Sex Toy for Couples

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  • Womanizer OG

    Best Feminine-Focused Couples Sex Toy

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  • B-Vibe Lube Applicator Set

    Best Budget Sex Toy for Couples

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  • Ohnut

    Best Sex Toy For Well-Endowed Partners

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As a sex educator, I often tell people to think of sex toys as tag-team partners. After all, toys can do things that people are physically incapable of. For example, penises can’t naturally vibrate. However, a vibrating cock ring can turn your penis into a vibrator. See where I’m going with this?

Sex toy usage rarely goes over poorly. A survey of 1,000 men and women ages 35 to 55 from sex toy company We-Vibe found that 52 percent of couples use sex toys to spice up their relationship. The survey also found that 50 percent of couples who use sex toys report having better communication about sex and other subjects, compared to 29 percent of couples who don’t indulge in these sultry playthings. Moreover, 30 percent of couples who use sex toys were also better at giving direction and asking for what they want in bed, compared to the 17 percent of couples who did not.

This means sex toys not only spice up your sex life but strengthen your relationship in other equally important ways. So check your ego and hangups at the door, get your hands on some of the fantastic sex toys below and explore new levels of pleasure together.

Things to Consider

Partner(s) Comfort Level: As we all know, sex can be a sensitive subject for some. And trying new things can be scary. Long before you pull out your wallet, you’re going to want to assess what you and your partner(s) are comfortable with — after all, you want all parties to be equally invested and, more importantly, to feel like you’ve all had a say in what kinds of toys to try (or not try).

Preferred Type(s) of Sex: While this goes hand-in-hand with the above consideration, it still needs to be said that your comfort with different kinds of sex and preferences therein will often play a major part in which sex toys you and your partner(s) will utilize. Some folks want to simply augment things they’re already doing. Others may want to expand into new activities. But whether you and your partner(s) are fairly vanilla or highly experimental, make sure you know what kinds of sex you want to embark upon before choosing your toys.

Type of Apparatus: There are a lot of different kinds of sex toys. And each has its own unique applications. Dildos, for instance, are made for penetrative sex and can be used for both vaginal and anal stimulation. Cock rings, on the other hand, are more of an aid, as they are intended to attach to a penis. There are also internal and external vibrators for penetrative sex and outercourse, respectively. And that’s only the beginning. Figuring out what kind of device you want (or at least knowing what categories you’re interested in potentially trying out) will help you narrow down your search.

Unpowered vs. Powered vs. Remote-Controlled: The breadth of sex toy categories is pretty huge, including everything from simple dildos to futuristic, high-tech mechanized rigs (and everything in between). Figuring out what route you want to go isn’t as simple as just knowing what style of apparatus you want. Now, there are battery-powered, rechargeable vibrators and even ones that offer remote controls and smartphone apps (both for simpler overall operation and for long-distance play). It also needs to be said that the format (traditional unpowered, powered and remote-controlled among them) will also affect the price. A silicone dildo will cost you far less than the latest and greatest tech-forward sex toy.

Pros

  • Great for solo or partnered play
  • Adjustable to fit any body

Cons

  • May be too loud for discreet usage
  • Requires strong connection to work with app
  • Type: Vibrator
  • Power: USB rechargeable

The We-Vibe Sync is arguably the best-known couples vibrator on the market, sitting pretty at the top of most couples’ sex toy lists, and for good reason. Many brands have copied the Sync since We-Vibe first released it, but as we all know, a remake is never as good as the original… or, in this case, the official sequel to the original.

“The toy is inserted vaginally and offers delicious hands-free clitoral and G-spot stimulation,” journalist, sex educator and co-host of the Bad in Bed podcast, Gabrielle Kassel says. “Partners with penises can feel all the powerful vibrations during intercourse as well, making it a fantastic toy for everyone involved.”

The Sync 2 can be controlled via the remote or the free We-Connect app on your phone. It can also be adjusted to fit any and every body, meaning you can feel the vibrations exactly where you need them.

Pros

  • Simple controls
  • Powerful and quiet vibrations

Cons

  • Limited to heterosexual couples
  • Must be charged frequently
  • Type: Cock ring (vibrating)
  • Power: USB rechargeable

There are so many cock rings on the market that it’s hard to narrow the selection down to just one. The reason the Nōs Vibrating Cock Ring wins out in this category is because of its versatility. Of course, the ring can be worn on the penis for penetrative sex, but it’s unique in that it was also designed to be worn upside down on the penis to elevate oral sex (vibrating blowjob, anyone?), and can be worn on the fingers, where the wearer presses down on the flexible extensions that hug the clit with its toe-curling dual motor vibration.

“Fun Factory makes some of the highest quality toys that my sexual partners and I have ever put our hands (and other things) on, and the Nōs cock ring is no different,” Kassel shares.

The toy is stretchy, flexible and guaranteed to fit any size penis, with unique pressure points that hit all the right spots on your shaft.

Pros

  • Super adjustable
  • Mimics the human finger
  • Quiet for discreet play

Cons

  • Can easily get bent out of the shape you desire
  • Type: Vibrator
  • Power: USB rechargeable

The hyper-bendable Crescendo can be bent into nearly any shape for either penetrative or non-penetrative play. Take the Crescendo across any of the 16 modes using the app for full control. Vibrations come from the six motors that are placed strategically throughout the Crescendo, and the entire device is meant to mimic the size and feel of the human finger.

Pros

  • Unique vibrations
  • Trusted brand

Cons

  • Expensive
  • A bit of a learning curve
  • Type: Vibrator
  • Power: USB rechargeable

Designed to vibrate itself as well as the air around it and made specifically to offer a “totally new kind of sensation to the G-spot” and “a powerful and original orgasmic journey,” this feminine-focused sex toy (when used properly) will hit her with waves of pleasure unlike those she’s experienced before. And while this waterproof device is crafted especially for those who have vaginas, we’d still highly recommend it for couples and group play, as well, for there are plenty of applications for the enjoyment of all those involved.

B-Vibe Lube Applicator Setb-vibe

Best Budget Sex Toy for Couples

B-Vibe Lube Applicator Set

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • Prevents lube from staining

Cons

  • Somewhat flimsy
  • Type: Lube applicator
  • Power: Unpowered

Lubricant enhances any sexual act. But when most people use lube, they place it on the object that’s doing the penetrating (be it a penis or toy) and the entry of the orifice it is going into (say, an anus or vagina). The area that most people neglect to lubricate is inside the orifice, which still requires lubrication considering the penis or toy is reaching deeper than the entry point. This is especially important during anal sex since the area doesn’t lubricate itself like the vagina does. That’s where lube applicators come in handy.

Simply fill the applicator with your favorite lube, insert the tip and gently push down on the injector to coat the entire canal. B-Vibe’s Lube Applicator Set comes with three applicators (for solo use, partnered use and even multiple partner use), a discreet storage and drying bag and instructions on how they’re best used.

Pros

  • Compatible with condoms
  • Comfortable to wear

Cons

  • Couples may require more than four rings
  • Number of rings required change with sexual position
  • Type: Cock ring
  • Power: Unpowered

Comprised of four stretchy, stackable rings, the Ohnut is a one-of-a-kind sex toy for couples whose partner might be too large and may find penetration painful.

“The Ohnut is truly a savior for people of any gender who experience painful sex,” Kassel says. “I cannot recommend it enough.”

You can wear however many rings feels most pleasurable for you and your partner, and I’ve personally found this number can change based on the sexual position you’re in. The Ohnut is worn at the base of the penis and acts as a bumper, preventing the shaft from reaching too deep without sacrificing the wearer’s sensation, as each ring feels just like skin and fits like a gentle hug. If your eyes proved bigger than your orifice during your latest naughty purchase, you can use the Ohnut on sex toys as well.

Pros

  • Great tool for getting into sensations play
  • Simple and effective

Cons

  • Can be difficult to transport; may tear other toys if thrown into a bag
  • Can be intense on initial use
  • Type: Massager
  • Power: Unpowered

If you and your partner are kink curious, the Wartenberg Wheel is a great and affordable toy to begin your journey. Originally created as a medical device to test nerve reactions from neurologist Robert Wartenberg in 1887, the 22-spoke Wartenberg Wheel soon became popular in the BDSM community, where curious kinksters adopted it to tickle and stimulate the body, increase sensitivity in erogenous zones, or simply run over the body like a sexy massage. The Wartenberg Wheel can offer as intense or as gentle an experience as you like. Either way, it will leave your body begging for more.

Pros

  • Kit captures every detail of the penis
  • A one-of-a-kind item

Cons

  • Larger penises require extra molding powder
  • Mold hardens quickly; may require a partner’s help
  • Type: DIY dildo
  • Power: Unpowered

The name might sound silly, but the Clone-A-Willy kit is one of the most fun and inventive items to have ever entered the sex toy space. These colorful and quirky DIY kits create a silicone replica of your penis that a partner can use to pleasure themselves.

“It’s a fun way to keep your partner’s package around even if they’re away at work or across the globe,” Carly S., pleasure educator and creator of the Dildo or Dildon’t blog, shares. “Or, hell, get creative and peg your partner with their own penis!”

Each kit comes with algae-based molding powder, a molding tube, simple instructions and a single speed vibrator. I’ve personally created a replica of my penis in the past and it’s jarring to witness just how much detail these kits capture. I can also confirm that the molding process is quick and easy … though it does require some speed. If penises aren’t your thing, it’s no biggie. The brand has created a version of their kits for vulvas called Clone-A-Pussy.

Pros

  • Enjoy intimacy even when far apart
  • Waterproof
  • Small and discreet

Cons

  • Can be too small for some
  • Type: Butt plug (vibrating)
  • Power: USB Rechargeable

For couples who spend time apart often, the Ditto allows for intimacy despite the distance. Through Bluetooth and a compatible app, users can control the vibrating Ditto through 10 different modes — like tease and pulse — and different intensities. Its slim and flexible base can be moved to find the perfect pleasure point. The Ditto is rechargeable and good for up to two hours of non-stop play, and for those averse to more apps on their phone, the Ditto can also be controlled through a wireless remote control. And while its primary purpose is to function as a butt plug, it can be used in other ways, as well — just make sure to use hygienic practices.

Pros

  • Massage oil absorbs into skin (no mess)
  • Looks sleek, modern, expensive

Cons

  • Candle is small
  • Type: Massage oil candle
  • Power: Unpowered

More of an object of intimacy than a sex toy, the SELF + JIMMYJANE Massage Oil Candle is a most romantic gift to seduce your partner. Once melted, the natural wax (made from soybean oil, shea butter, palmarosa oil, jojoba oil, aloe vera and vitamin E) can be poured directly onto the skin for an intimate massage–something you absolutely cannot do with most other candles. It’s a deeply intimate and sensory experience from start to finish, available in three amorous scents: seaside neroli, bergamot rose and Tahitian moss.

Pros

  • Firm, yet comfortable
  • Sets both partners up for better sex

Cons

  • Limited color range
  • Type: Positioning pillow
  • Power: Unpowered

Liberator is a company that solely offers sex furniture, wedges and ramps, each expertly designed to increase pleasure, mobility and stamina during sex. The Wedge is the most popular item in their catalog, likely due to its simplicity and convenient storable size. The 27-degree angle the Wedge offers is ideal for elevating the hips for G-Spot stimulation, as well as for anal and oral sex. I’ve also found it particularly helpful during doggy style, so there is less tension on the receiver’s hands and knees.

“The Liberator Wedge is the ultimate positioning pillow to help put you in better and more comfortable positions,” Carly says. “Give your partner better access while still being comfortable and looking great doing it. What a win-win!”

Its poly/nylon material helps repel moisture and when things get messy, the cover is easily removable and machine washable. The Wedge is a great first purchase since it can be paired with most other items in the Liberator collection.

Pros

  • Powerful vibrations
  • Fits comfortably

Cons

  • Connectivity issues when long distance
  • Type: Vibrator (external)
  • Power: USB rechargeable

Picture this: It’s date night, you’re having a delicious cocktail at a swanky bar, and your partner is holding a remote that is connected to a toy fastened to your panties. You don’t know when they’re going to turn it on or how intense the vibrations will be. Only they know, and they’re smirking devilishly from across the table teasing you. This is the exact kind of experience We-Vibe’s Moxie Wearable Vibrator is designed to do. “The Moxie’s strong magnet keeps the vibe in place and allows you and your partner to play wherever you want,” Carly says. “Who doesn’t want to take the show on the road from time to time?” As with all We-Vibe products, the Moxie can be used with the included remote or the free We-Connect app.

Pros

  • A wearable vibrator for penis owners — finally!
  • Powerful and quiet vibrations

Cons

  • Can take some adjusting to get comfortable
  • Type: Cock ring (vibrating)
  • Power: USB rechargeable

As you can see by now, We-Vibe has dominated the couples sex toy market, but they truly are pioneers in the space. Similar to the Moxie, the Verge is a vibrator that can be worn out in public and controlled via We-Vibe’s free We-Connect app. The difference is, this one is made for people with penises and is designed to stimulate the perineum (the swath of skin between your scrotum and bum) which hosts a number of nerve endings as well as the prostate, often referenced as the G-Spot for people with penises (long story short: orgasm central). “If your partner likes their taint rubbed, this is definitely the toy for them,” Carly says.

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