There’s an odd pride in knowing you don’t follow your own advice. You’re like a renegade from your own wisdom. You’re independent from all rules, even your own. That was me in 2013: a dumb, stubborn first-time marathoner stepping up to the start line of the Long Beach Marathon thinking I’d meet all my marathon dreams (running sub-seven-minute miles, qualifying for Boston) in one shot. Inside, I knew better. It wouldn’t happen that way. But why would I listen to myself? I fired off the line like Meb Keflezighi was at my heels. Then, at mile 14, I slowed. Mile 18, I hit the wall, and eight miles later, I limped across the line. Marathon #1: fail.
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Sequels tend to suck (Caddyshack II), and when they involve 26.2 miles of pavement, the suck-potential shoots up exponentially. This year, at Marathon #2, I stepped up to the start line of the San Francisco Marathon with expectations low. I planned for the worst. I ran slow. And then, after the first half went well, I ran a little faster. I felt strong. At mile 15, I passed my old self. That person from last year — the guy guzzling Nuun and crushing GU’s to power through the next mile — I breezed past him cooking with steam. He was in pain; I was in a groove. As I crossed the finish line (and it still feels weird to say) I actually found I enjoyed the race. And I finished faster — 12 minutes and 6 seconds faster.
So, if I could, I’d like to give some advice to my former, first-marathon self. Would I have listened? Maybe not. But I’ll take a stab and guess that you’re smarter than me, and maybe you can learn from one man’s mistakes. Here’s my wisdom from a second round of 26.2.

1 Stay in Your League. During that first race, I’d come off a half marathon at 6:47 pace (1:28:59 time), and I anticipated keeping that clip for the marathon. First thing I learned: double the distance isn’t double the fun. The second time around I set realistic expectations: I wanted to finish somewhere respectable, about 7:45 minutes per mile, and I actually, triumphantly, did. Could I have gone faster? Maybe — but I’ll let the Boston qualifying times come after a few more races under my belt. The new me’s okay with that.
