First impressions go a long way in this world, and Jeff Carvalho knows it. The 39-year-old presents himself like a real-life version of Robert Downey Jr.’s Tony Stark: intelligent, well-dressed, confident. He’s got killer handshake and congenial smile. As a result, people listen when he talks. Or maybe they listen because he tells great stories. Or because he’s the kind of guy that can go out for a night of karaoke and wind up sitting in Big Boi’s living room.
In 2005, Carvalho was working at an internet content delivery company when he met Rob Heppler (credited by Nike for designing the Lobster and Coraline Dunks). The two decided to fuel their passion for streetwear and art by founding a podcast called Weekly Drop. Not long after, Carvalho met Dave Fischer, founder of Titel Media, and the two launched Selectism, a design-focused men’s lifestyle website. Today, Carvalho also edits HighSnobiety, Selectism‘s brother site, which focuses on streetwear and fashion. It’s an interesting life for a man who started his career at pharmacy school. We caught up with the menswear influencer to talk about manners, music and pineapple soda.
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Q. What’s one thing every man should know?
A. Salutations. Never underestimate the power of a strong handshake and conversational greeting. First impressions go a long, long way.
Q. What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done?
A. Quitting my day job, leaving a relationship and moving out of my house all in the same week. Resets in life are a refreshing way to cleanse and begin again — just don’t do three resets in a week. I do not recommend it.
Q. What are you working on right now?
A. Various projects for Highsnobiety and Selectism. Fashion and market weeks are about to kick off in Europe and we’re preparing for coverage. The ninth issue of Highsnobiety magazine is coming soon; we have a ton of work around that. But my favorite project is a new on-going mix series on Selectism that brings together not just DJs but curators from our favorite brands and shops. So far, so good.
Never underestimate the power of a strong handshake and conversational greeting. First impressions go a long, long way.