The argument has sound logic: your wife was technically on vacation when she came along to provide support during your last attempt at Leadville. She used up her vacation time, after all, and you did book a couples massage. But logic rarely prevails when you’re being an idiot. There’s nothing romantic or decent about compression socks and 3 a.m. wake-up calls. You’ve got to take a real vacation, complete with novelty shops, sweeping ocean views and fragrant cuisine you can point to on the menu but not pronounce. This will get you back to good. We’ve got three suggestions for romantic destinations that may not have been on your list.
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Santa Fe, New Mexico

New Mexico is an easy long weekend from almost anywhere in the U.S., and it isn’t short on vacation spots (we’ve addressed the virtues of Taos pow in our Skiing Issue). Santa Fe has all the trappings of a classic getaway, rich with Native American and Spanish heritage, a thriving contemporary art scene and plenty of burritos doused in green chili. We suggest a walk around the Plaza in old Santa Fe and a visit to the New Mexico History Museum to get started. The Santa Fe farmers market is open all year and is considered one of the best in the country, particularly because it also has an artisan market with locally made pottery, sculpture and jewelry. If you packed your turtleneck — and take this as a green light to do so — wear it to SITE Sante Fe, a world-class visual art space that hosts exhibitions throughout the year, including its biennial of contemporary art. The food in Santa Fe is also exceptional, whether you opt for a James-Beard-endorsed option like Compound or something a little more rustic like Maria’s New Mexican Kitchen.
The Inn and Spa at Loretto is a pristine launching point for any downtown destination, not to mention an ideal place to seek shelter from the heat of high noon or the surprising chill of desert evenings. Its 136 rooms are all meticulously decorated in high south west style, many with private working fireplaces and balconies providing views of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains, Saint Francis Cathedral, Loretto Chapel or the Inn’s private garden. Romantic supplies are easily in striking distance too; uniquely flavored Nut, Chili, and Liquor dark truffles from artisanal Kakawa’s Chocolate house are a short block away, while La Casa Sena off Cathedral Park stocks all manner of local and premier wines from around the world.